Recent content by Camila

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    know more friends

    India, love the food from there!!!!!
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    My dad isn’t coming to my college graduation because he hates my mom and her side of the family

    I just got off the phone with my dad. He told me that he’s not planning on coming to my graduation in the spring. When I asked him why (knowing what he’s about to say lol) he started going on and on about how horrible my mom is because she’s calculated and cold and manipulated our relationship...
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    I need dinner ideas ladies!

    There’s a pait of cookbooks called “well fed: paleo recipes for people who like to eat.” I’m not paleo, but the recipes are all fantastic. Better yet, in the beginning of one of the books there is a section on fast weekly food prep and how to use food during the week so it’s fast, nutritious...
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    How to deal with fatphobic family? (Possible Triggers)

    Disclaimer: I’m not sure if this is a good subreddit for this question or not. Also, I do identify as non-binary but I also partially identify with womanhood and was raised a woman so I specifically wanted women’s opinions. So I have to go visit my family for fall break and unfortunately, they...
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    Feeling very confused. Please help.

    Please note this post is not meant to be offensive at all, I’m just trying to understand stuff, so I’m sorry if I phrase things in a way that offends people. If I do that at all, please let me know and I’ll correct it. I’m a teenage girl and a survivor of sexual assault, multiple times...
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    It’s time I get political

    I’m tired of people thinking that women don’t have rights. In some countries they don’t and that sucks. But men are the target of fake accusations of women mistreatment. They think oh women have it bad because we are women. But still they accuse the men of doing it if they didn’t even do it. If...
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    I’m tired of being made a victim–creepy delivery guy encounter.

    Nothing happened. By all accounts, it’s very tame. But when I answered the door, there was just a guy by himself. I looked for a store tag on his shirt while talking to him, and by talking, I mean asking where the dryer is and looking around while he just stares at me for far too long...
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    I hate being told that, as a woman, I have it “easier” in the dating scene.

    This is something that I’ve been told multiple times, and also something I see discussed often on social media: women have more choice than men, because there are more men after women than the other way around, and even “ugly” women have at least one friend willing to be/sleep with them...
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    Do you ever use the word *like* just to piss people off?

    I’m a lady and grew up with the whole: don’t be a valley girl, you sound stupid. Well, now I find myself online just dropping likes to signal to people that I am… not a man. Like (lol) it was forced out of me, but now I have control of the like and use it to ruffle feathers.
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    What is your biggest fear in life?

    Honestly, (and this might sound silly but) my biggest fear is that people think I’m stupid. It would affect my job, my relationships, my self-esteem…everything. I hate it when people don’t understand what I’m trying to explain especially when they’re not really listening and just assume I’m...
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    How to overcome being cheated on with a new partner?

    A year ago I was seeing someone who was thoughtful, kind, always cared about if I was feeling good, just an overall good guy. He was a classmate of mine. Turns out he had a girlfriend that I later found out about and it kinda destroyed me for a while. Now a coworker messaged me, we’ve been...
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    How to handle restrictions I have as a woman

    I am in my mid twenties and I live in a very conservative family. I developed a taste for my own company instead of tagging along with people I don’t like. So I go to movies, historical monuments, book stores and cafes alone. Usually I have a blast but my family seems to hate it. I try to avoid...
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    Why not be the rich man?

    So since I was a young girl everyone would tell me to marry a rich guy when I grow up that it would help me live a comfortable life and not have any worries. Sad thing is that I believed this for a while. I met a couple of wealthy fellas who won’t lie they have that charm and the IT factor that...
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    How to get over someone else’s relationship you thought would be “it,” the end game?

    My older sister is recently separated. She’d known her husband since middle school, they were on and off. I should mention that she’s a little over a decade older than me, so I was not involved in their marriage growing up but knew they went through ups and downs to end up being the most lovely...
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    Am I going nuts or is “women” dissappearing?

    Literally the word women. I’ve been noticing more and more on videos that I watch people say “woman” when referring to multiple women. At first I chalked it up to many people I watch online not having English as a first language. Fair enough. But then I noticed it increasing with people I know...