I don't have this kind of challenge, but my partner always push for certain things to be done even when I turn down the proposal. So, I am used to treating her right so that she can always feel happy and relaxed.
I do not have OCD or any kind of mental heath issues. However, I have a couple of problems such as social anxiety disorder, anger management issues, etc. however, according to my doctor, my conditions are not clinical.
I actually believe that when you are suffering from this kind of thing that if you find a way to do it in a positive way, it is going to be something that is going to be fruitful for you because it will make you to get every task that is given to you successfully checked out.